So tired of that..

So tired of that..

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14 Feb 2012 at 03:18am
When people act condescendingly about labels such as butch, femme, top, bottom. I ask them if they label themselves as gay, and i they feel that makes them have to act a certain way, and not have a personality, opinion, and tastes of their own...

This is a butch, male, tattooed identified transguy who HATES watching pro sports and can't fix a car to save my life (though I can change the fluid, and I think it's SUPER hot when a femme can fix a car).....
Femme/Lady 45 y.o.

15 May 2012 at 09:54pm
I've never really given thought to whether I'm femme or butch, top or bottom, etc... labels don't really do a lot for me.

I can see where they're helpful in narrowing down searches on a dating site, but I hate to think that someone special never saw me because I applied the wrong labels to myself!
Edited by eastvankelly 15 May 2012 at 09:54pm