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FTM_Daddy: Mr Enigmatic..
FTM/TG
46 y/o
San Francisco,
United States
Status: Checking this place out! 
Activity:
19 day(s) ago
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FTM_Daddy's details
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| I am | FTM/TG |
| Looking for | Femme/Lady |
| More About My Gender |
** PLEASE NOTE** I am just on the 7 - day promo account. If you email me and I don't respond it's only because my account status may have changed ** If you DO email me I will sort it out and join properly to respond. **Also -- just moving back to SF from England** Humm.. explain my gender.. using a small box.. umm, you're asking a lot. :-) - lol - Let's see.. physically – I’ve been on T almost 9 years. I’m ‘post op top’ and ‘no op bottom’. Meaning I choose to not have surgery below *and* I don’t always choose to use a strap on to have sex (meaning I'm not cock obsessed anymore). I've learned to deal with what's in my shorts with a love for myself with the plumbing I have to work with. My plumbing is not my gender. I see my gender as both male and female since I started transition at 37 - I lived a long time in a womans world and it's not something I want to try to forget. My outward expression is masculine and inside I'm just all love and squishy tendrness. For me, expression of my masculine gender is in my presence, my appearance, my personality and between my ears – not between my legs. Having or not having a penis is not the focus of my life anymore; loving myself during this lifetime is my focus. I ID as queer and I like to live a queer lifestyle. I don’t specifically live in stealth, I’m very open to people who I want to be friends with but I don’t shout it from the roof tops in places it could be dangerous. I enjoy being around other nice people who enjoy queer spaces. I like masculinity and femininity in all it’s various shapes and colours. Most people might call me a Daddy Bear.. and I like that. I am attracted to femme women who get turned on by a loving, tender, stern, Queer Daddy Bear. |
| Desired Relationship | Activity Partner, Romance, Friends First, Travel Partner, BDSM Partner, Sexual Partner |
| My Age | 46 |
| My Match Age Range | 35-55 |
| Status | Single |
| Astrological Sign | Cancer |
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| Physical Appearance |
I’m strong and firm.. except where I’m not.. <wink>.. Why can’t there be a lovely word like ‘voluptuous’ to describe a guys chubby belly eh!? You girls get all the great words.. Anyhow -- to borrow it for a moment.. my 'voluptuous’ belly comes and goes with the seasons.. I'm a bear, whad'ya expect? :-P I’ve dark brown hair on my head that is receding a bit and on my face that is well groomed. My eyes are grey/blue and I often (but not always) wear glasses. I’ve been told more then once I’ve got sexy hands.. <serious eyebrow wiggles> and I might wear a "cool" bracelet or ring sometimes (some things never change). I dress fairly casual but I don't do flip - flops and baggy shorts very well. I prefer a tidy "cool" appearance like jeans and a button up shirt or a good quality t-shirt. What else is there to say really? I've got all my own teeth and I don't usually have bad breath (unless its garlic -- LOVE garlic!) |
| Ethnicity | Caucasian |
| Height | 5'8"-5'11" (171-180cm) |
| Body Type | Stocky |
| Eye Color | Grey |
| Hair Color | Brown |
| Location | |
| Country | United States |
| ZIP/Postal code | 94102 |
| City, State | San Francisco |
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| Occupation | I.T/Communications |
| Religion | Not Religious |
| Children | I don't have children but it's ok if you do. |
| Spoken Languages | English |
| Education | College |
| Income | No one's business! |
| Smoking | Smoke Cigars/Pipes |
| Drinking | Light/social drinker |
| Diet | I'm a total foodie and eat almost everything. |
| Interests | |
| Hobbies and Interests | Nature, Astrology / New Age, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Country, Music - Alternative, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Golf |
| More Pastimes | Shopping, Dancing, Computers / Internet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine, BDSM, Writing |
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| Income | No one's business! |
| Smoking | Non smoker, Light/social smoker, Smoke Cigars/Pipes, No Smoking at all |
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| More About Me |
I’m an American FTM living in Brighton, England for now. I’m from the San Francisco area and Portland, Oregon but have been in England since 2008. I’m thinking of going home by Feb 2012'ish. I’d love to talk to people in any of those places. I’d like to think I’m some of these qualities and more; • a gentle and loving Queer Daddy Bear who can also be stern when the moment calls for it.. <wink> • intelligent (or so I think) and hopefully a little funny too • silly • mature but not boring.. • articulate communicator • romantic when inspired by someone I want to romance.. • fairly sound in my centre being most of the time • loving cuddle bear (love to cuddle watching movies) • flexible, adaptable • recovering from past romance injuries (but not ruled by it) • a little guarded in my heart but I AM a Cancarian so that’s never a problem for long.. lol.. • sometimes moody but NEVER an unpredictable ass (I come with references too) • painfully honest (but compassionate too!) • have ZERO patience with BS, liars, drama, narcissists or drunks.. no joking. • Oh, and vanilla I am not… there is a time and place for everything.. <wink> • stubborn but introspective • able to say I'm sorry or I was wrong and sometimes even in the same sentence... • able to let you drive the damn car when you feel like it or more than happy to drive all the time.. we'll work it out :-) (see flexible and adaptable) • scared of snakes (really scared) • love to dine out in a nice restaurant (!) I even usually use the correct forks and spoons :-) • I will turn off like a light switch to even a whiff of someone trying to control or manipulate my emotional generosity -- won't tolerate it what so ever under any circumstances. I can't think of anything else to put here so maybe you should say hello and let's chat! |
| I'm Looking For... |
I can’t say I have a “type” based on hair colour or anything. A woman can be a total sexy knock out to me if she truly enjoys feeling sexy. Sexy to me is her feeling dressed up in a classy little black dress as much as tossing on a pair of jeans for a night out. Sexy could be a simple little look or the way she walks or moves... She needs to be able (and comfortable) being adored. She’s got to feel her fierce sexy self deep inside her own being. It’s nothing that can be captured in a ‘how to’ book - it just flows out as a part of her being. I’m looking for chemistry – good old fashioned chemistry. I’d prefer her to have some sort of established mature interest or direction for her career (in school, a long time established career, starting a new business, just something that shows commitment. She should have the following types of qualities that shine through in her personality not simply checked off on a list: • passion and zest for life • displays introspection in her life on a regular basis • intelligence that shines through even when she’s being silly – I don’t mean brilliance 24/7 but a geeky interest in learning new even sometimes silly things • positive forward thinker • can remember the last time she told her mom or dad (or sibling or child) she loves them • can remember the last time she asked for help on something • can remember a time she assembled something knowing she could do it on her own but asked a Daddy to help her • feels comfortable and healthy in her body • does not aspire to be a ‘bitch’ in life • is proud to be a loving, nice person • tries to never, ever lie even if her BFF’s butt really does look fat in those jeans • can exercise diplomacy about her BFF’s fat butt |
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Good for you. I like the realness of this.
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