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|More About My Gender||
I am a female identified butch. My Midwestern manners, Scandinavian looks and chill demeanor sometimes get mistaken for passive or even submissive (an assumption I enjoy disproving because I am neither). I'm an aggressive top, into some kink, very chivalrous and enjoy an old school butch/femme dynamic and courtship...prepare to be woo'ed!
|Desired Relationship||Relationship, Romance, Friends First, Sexual Partner|
|My Match Age Range||
Mom says I'm cute.
My bff says I'm built like an athletic brick shithouse...so there's that...
Stocky, solid. working on those extra pounds but athletic and fairly active.
I have current pictures up, so there you go...
|Children||I don't have children but it's ok if you do.|
|Diet||I'm a total foodie and eat almost everything.|
|Hobbies and Interests||Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Billiards / Pool / Darts, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Baseball / Softball, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf|
|More Pastimes||Athletics, Ice / Snow Sports, Tennis / Racket Sports, Volleyball / Basketball, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine, BDSM, Music - Hip-Hop/Rap/Gangsta|
|Smoking||Non smoker, Light/social smoker, No Smoking at all, I want to quit|
|Drinking||Non drinker, Light/social drinker, Sober|
|More About Me||
I am genuine, honest, monogamous, chivalrous, charming, witty, blue collar but far from basic.
Gainfully employed, homeowner, live alone. Not independently wealthy but I pay my own bills, invest in my retirement. I have my shit together.
My sense of humor can be sharp, goofy or self deprecating depending on my mood.
I'm French and Norwegian. Which means I'm white, and pasty white.
Every 18-24mos I cut all my hair and donate to honor my mom who is a survivor. I have donated over 100 inches.
Going with a close cropped-look now...think it's a keeper.
I have a mouth that would make a lumberjack blush, I say "dude" entirely too much, and I often start a sentence with "so here's the deal.."
I am pro-choice, pro-gun control, anti-death penalty, anti-war, sex positive, body positive. I believe Black Lives Matter, I believe in climate change and that you should use whatever bathroom you want.
I love to spend Saturday mornings at the farmers market, afternoons at Minneapolis Institute of Art or at the Lagoon catching a great foreign, documentary or independent flick.
Getting back into shape after some health issues and a couple of surgeries. Exercise, golf, still play softball and hockey.
Attempting tennis (oof) Attempting yoga (and failing miserably).
I've also been getting into biking and hiking, but not a wilderness/roughing it-type of camper. Not gonna lie, I need an outlet and toilet.
Myers-Briggs says I'm an ENFP if it's important.
And none of this matters until we meet and you form your own opinion...
|I'm Looking For...||
A femme who's intelligent, possibly artistic or geeky/nerdy (my polar opposite) with some depth, a good sense of humor. You don't have to play sports, but don't mind attending a game or two. A woman mentally and emotionally ready for a serious relationship, if that's where things seem to be heading. I wouldn't expect you to be completely drama-free...we are, after all, human. But please, my drama fits nicely in my wallet...hopefully yours in your purse or at least a carry-on.
With no disrespect, and without prejudice, I am not interested in poly relationships, or interested in married women.
The popular or mainstream dating sites are just not working for me. Some tell me b/f relationships are too old school/old fashioned, or too niche but it's what works for me and what I want. I'm hoping to find a femme who truly appreciates a b/f dynamic.
Distance is not too much of a factor, as I am able to travel.
My bff says a Gemini, Leo, Aquarius or Sag is what is most compatible for me. Another Aries, Virgo or Scorpio could be too. I have no clue, I'm not into astrology. But I find he is right more times than not!