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As a member and participant in the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com community, you agree to act in accordance with the community guidelines that follow.
In exchange for your compliance with our community guidelines, ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com 's Administrators are committed to nurturing a respectful, fun and lawful environment where lively discussions of Butch-Femme and LGBT issues are celebrated and honored, and where appropriate action will be taken against reported violations of this safe haven.
- Be Safe, but Don't Be Afraid
ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com is a community dedicated to providing a conversational safe haven -- an online world where you can openly discuss the LGBT issues important to you. If you are new to the community, posting to a another member or speaking up in a chat room may be a scary proposition. But try it out. We encourage you to jump into the conversations and see what a friendly welcome you receive.
- Taking It Offline
While ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com is a place to make friends and acquaintances, we encourage all members to act responsibly in choosing their offline interactions and in being conservative in the distribution of personal information, such as name, phone number and address. We cannot accept responsibility for what happens as a result of a connection made through ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com services.
- Republishing Your Words
Because we are dedicated to sharing the best of the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com community with a broader audience, we may republish your word(s) and/or image(s) across other segments of our Web site.
- No Hate Here
Expressions and/or threats of bigotry, hatred, harassment and abuse are not tolerated on the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com ButchFemmeMatchMaker. Bashers are subject to immediate removal from the site, and no refunds will be issued.
- Support Each Other
This is your community and we encourage you to interact with each other respectfully, peacefully and thoughtfully and in accordance with the law. Below are a few things to keep in mind, whether chatting or posting to the boards.
- Welcome Newcomers: Remember what it was like to be new to the site yourself and how much of an impact those first few messages had on you. When you see new names in a chat room or on a message board, welcome them and show them around!
- Don't Attack Each Other: Always "cease and report" when faced with a potential flame war. If another member says or posts something that offends or irritates you, think before responding! We want to take appropriate action to keep a civil, courteous and lawful atmosphere here at ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com but we need your help to do it. Report troublemakers.While strong opinions and lively debate are welcome and encouraged, name-calling or personal attacks directed towards other members using our service is not allowed and violators will be subject to removal from the site. Please keep the conversation respectful of differing opinions, and consider your comments thoughtfully before posting a rebuttal. We urge members to work out personal differences privately via email or by thoughtful debate on the boards, avoiding "flame wars."
- Keep It Kind: Again, hatespeech is taken extremely seriously, is a violation of our User Agreement and will not be tolerated on the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com site. This type of communication subjects you to immediate and permanent suspension of membership privileges and/or termination of your account. In addition, we respectfully request that you refrain from profane, defamatory, or communications that otherwise violate the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com User Agreement. If you feel another member is communicating in this fashion, tell us about it on the Report Violation form .
- ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com asks that you refrain from using extremely explicit or vulgar language with other members. We do of course allow discussion of sexual topics, but we ask that members refrain from using terms or words normally considered vulgar or rude.
- Stating your opinion and observations about a subject is appropriate in a topical discussion. When stating a position as "fact," please provide supporting documentation or a source for your position.
- Youth Online
We ask that all members accessing ButchFemmeMatchmaker be at least 18 years of age.
- Adult Content
By signing up for our ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com Personals service, you are certifying that you are 18 or above. This site is for adults only and may contain adult images or graphic language not suitable for youth.
- Members that post commercial advertisements, including other Web pages, are subject to suspension of membership privileges, removal of content or removal from community areas. To pursue a partnership with ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com, email us .
- Posting offers for sale of products or services is not allowed in any part of our service.
- Copyrighted Info
Information copyrighted by an individual or entity other than the poster should never be posted or pasted within the ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com community. In the event this does occur, the individual posting this information will be held responsible. ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com cannot accept responsibility for this type of unlawful communication.
- Ask Us!
If you feel another member is violating the User Agreement or are uncertain whether your post could constitute such a violation, do not hesitate to contact us to find out for sure. And remember, have fun!
You agree to (a) provide true, accurate, current and complete information as prompted by the registration form and (b) maintain and update such information to keep it true, accurate, current, and complete at all times. If any information provided by you on the registration form is untrue, inaccurate, not current, or incomplete, or if we have reasonable grounds to so believe, we have the right to suspend or terminate your membership and to refuse to provide you with any future membership. If we have reason to believe that you have registered someone other than yourself, we will cooperate with any law enforcement investigation that may result from such misrepresentations and shall have the right, in our sole discretion, to disclose any information you provided to us in connection with such registration.
ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com makes a good faith effort to prohibit registration as a Member by, and will not knowingly collect or store personal information from, children under the age of 18.
We reserve the right to modify or discontinue, temporarily or permanently, the ButchFemmeMatchMaker (or any part thereof) with or without notice. You agree that ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com shall not be liable to you or to any third party for any such action. We also reserve the right to sell or transfer the database of profiles, and give our members an opportunity to unpublish their profiles if they so chose.
We charge a reasonable fee for full access to all services. In no event will you be charged for access to any ButchFemmeMatchMaker content or service, or to the ButchFemmeMatchMaker as a whole, unless we obtain your prior agreement to pay such charges. Please be reminded that the subscriptions on ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com are recurring, and unless you cancel the subscription agreement in your Paypal account, your membership will automatically renew. If you do not consent to such charges, however, please contact us. If you file an "unauthorized" claim with Paypal, it freezes the funds and prevents us from issuing a refund, and the charges are a recurring subscription so Paypal always awards in on our behalf. We don't want anyone to feel ripped off, so please contact us if you have any billing issues. Our intent is to offer good service and at a reasonable value.
Following are some basic rules that apply to the ButchFemmeMatchMaker and that you agree to follow. If you violate any of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker rules, or if we have reasonable grounds to so believe, we have the right to deny you access to the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, to suspend or terminate your membership and to refuse to provide you with any future membership. If your paid subscription is terminated for breach of terms in this user agreement, we will not issue a refund.
You agree not to use the ButchFemmeMatchMaker to:
- upload, store, post, email or otherwise transmit any: (a) material that is inaccurate, unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortuous, defamatory, vulgar, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, racist, bigoted or otherwise objectionable, (b) material that you do not have a right to transmit under any applicable law or under contractual or fiduciary relationships, (c) material that infringes any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or other proprietary right of any party, (d) advertising, promotional materials, junk mail, spam, chain letters, pyramid schemes, or any other form of solicitation, except where specifically permitted, or (e) material that contains software viruses or any other computer code, files or programs designed to interrupt, destroy or limit the functionality of any computer software or hardware or telecommunications equipment;
- connect in an unauthorized manner (i.e., by means other than the chat and/or messenger clients provided by ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com) to the chat environment ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com provides for use by its Members on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker or facilitate such unauthorized connections through the provision of software or other computer code specifically designed to allow a user to make such unauthorized connections to ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com's chat environment;
- copy, modify, create a derivative work of, reverse engineer, reverse assemble or otherwise attempt to discover any source code of the chat and/or messenger clients or any other software ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com provides for use by its Members;
- impersonate any person or entity or falsely state or otherwise misrepresent your affiliation with a person or entity;
- forge headers or otherwise manipulate identifiers in order to disguise the origin of any material transmitted through the ButchFemmeMatchMaker;
- disrupt the normal flow of dialogue, cause a screen to scroll faster than other users of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker are able to type (e.g., "flooding" chat), or otherwise act in a manner that negatively affects other users' ability to engage in real time exchanges;
- interfere with or disrupt the ButchFemmeMatchMaker or servers, networking and computing equipment or networks connected to the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, or disobey any requirements, procedures, policies or regulations of networks connected to the ButchFemmeMatchMaker;
- initiate, facilitate, participate in or distribute a denial of service attack, exploit any documented or undocumented vulnerability in the ButchFemmeMatchMaker and its component networking or computing equipment, or otherwise initiate, facilitate, or participate in any malicious action aimed at the ButchFemmeMatchMaker;
- try to gain access to areas that are private to ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com or to other ButchFemmeMatchMaker users;
- violate any applicable local, state, national or international law or any regulation having the force of law;
- stalk or otherwise harass another;
- harm minors in any way, including, without limitation, to establish unlawful contact with minors (whether on or off the ButchFemmeMatchMaker);
- collect, intercept or harvest screen names; collect, intercept or store personal data about other users of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker; or solicit or attempt to discover a user's password, screen name, or other registration information without the user's express knowledge and consent;
- engage in or run raffles, lotteries, contests, or sweepstakes;
- promote or provide instructions or information about how to engage in illegal conduct or commit illegal activities, promote physical harm or injury, or promote any illegal act; or
- store any information or use any Web page or directory you create on or through the ButchFemmeMatchMaker as storage for remote loading or as a door or signpost to another Web page, whether inside or outside the ButchFemmeMatchMaker.
You acknowledge that we do not pre-screen material posted or transmitted on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, but that we and our designees shall have the right (but not the obligation) in our sole discretion to review and edit, delete or refuse to post any material submitted for display or placed on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, including but not limited to message board posts, profiles, images, personals, and reviews. Without limiting the foregoing, we and our designees shall have the right to remove any material that violates this Agreement, that we believe in good faith may create liability for us, or that we deem is otherwise objectionable. You acknowledge and agree that we may preserve material and may disclose material if required to do so by law or in the good faith belief that such preservation or disclosure is reasonably necessary to: (a) comply with legal process; (b) enforce this Agreement; (c) respond to claims that any material violates the rights of third parties; or (d) in our sole judgment, protect the rights, property, or personal safety of ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com, its users or the public.
A Public Area ("Public Area") of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker is any area where you may submit material ("Submissions") for viewing by others or view Submissions of other users, such as bulletin boards, forums, personals, Member profiles, chat rooms or video chat rooms. In some of these areas, a Submission includes the name, ID, nickname, and/or other information that would be displayed with the submitted material, as applicable. You agree to use Public Areas in accordance with this Agreement and any policies for the Public Areas that are displayed on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker.
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By making a Submission to any Public Area, you automatically grant ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com the royalty-free, perpetual, irrevocable, nonexclusive right and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, publicly perform and display and distribute the content of the Submission (in whole or in part) worldwide and/or to incorporate it in other works in any form, media, or technology now known or hereafter developed. You also permit any other user of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker to access, view, store, or reproduce the Submission for that user's personal use.
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REMOVAL OF MATERIAL FOR WHICH COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT IS CLAIMED
ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com respects the intellectual property rights of others. Pursuant to Title 17 U.S.C. § 512, as amended by Title II of the Digital Millennium Copyright Act (the "Act"), ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com has implemented procedures for receiving written notification of claimed copyright infringements and for processing such claims in accordance with the Act. If you believe your copyrights are being infringed please contact us.
Please note that ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com will, in appropriate circumstances, terminate the account of any Member who repeatedly posts infringing material on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker.
You agree to hold harmless ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com, its Information Providers and any other person or entity involved in creating or distributing the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, as well as each of their respective parents, affiliates or subsidiaries and their respective directors, officers, employees and agents, from and against any and all claims, liabilities, damages, losses, costs, fees (including reasonable attorneys' fees) and expenses that such parties may incur as a result of or arising out of your (or, in the case of Members, anyone using your account's) use of, or conduct with respect to, the ButchFemmeMatchMaker, or with any interaction with anyone you might choose to meet from our site.
CHOICE OF LAW/JURISDICTION AND VENUE
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MODIFICATION OF AGREEMENT
You agree that ButchFemmeMatchmaker.com may change the terms and conditions of this Agreement, unilaterally, and at any time, by conspicuously posting notice of such change on the ButchFemmeMatchMaker for a period of five (5) consecutive days. Continued use of the ButchFemmeMatchMaker after such notice will constitute your acknowledgment and acceptance of the revised terms and condition.
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